First its law of attraction Keep calm and save the planet shirt. Opposite attracts, as moms also love their sons more than daughters and fathers love their daughters more than their sons. Second a practical reason behind this opposite attraction is that fathers were once boys and they know what boydo. So they don’t want their boys to encounter something bad which they had faced during their time. You can say fathers use their vision of experience to guide their sons to the right path of life and most of the times they become strict to their sons because due to more freedom to boys because of male mided society they tend to be stubborn to agree easily. Same goes between mothers and their daughters. Because a mother was once a girl like her daughter. So she knows what will affect her daughter’s life. So mothers try to forge the thoughts of their daughters to make them fit easily to male minded society whereas fathers tend to be more gentle towards their daughters because they see their sons get more favor from mother. This whole thing is the reason behind boys being more close to their moms. But this isn’t the case always. As with anything, there are exceptions. Its all a natural reflection of human nature. But it is caused by the idea of male mindedness of our world. I can feel your pain. I’m so sorry you are hurting over this.
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Parents don’t always love their children in the way their children need them to. Hell, that goes for anybody. Some of us were raised without loving doting parents, and then had kids that we had no freaking clue how to nurture. It’s an unfortunate cycle that never ends. You ask if loving your mom is something you have to do. My answer is no. You don’t have to love her. You don’t have to like her. However, as long as you remain dependent on her in any way, you need to respect her role as your caregiver. You didn’t provide much in the way of detail so I don’t know your age. If you are still under her roof, then I advise you to tolerate the situation as best you can until you can see your way clear of it. That means commit to doing whatever is necessary to keep things as civil between you as possible. Do this for yourself, if nothing else. It may not seem like it now, but I do believe you will receive the love you need. It may or may not come from your parents. But you will not only receive it, you will learn how to reciprocate it. I wish you all the best and peace of mind.