From my perspective Save the planet eat the babies shirt, it is certainly bad but it’s not necessarily your fault. If your mother exhibits behaviour with deliberate and measured intent to disturb you and won’t stop despite repeated pleas (as in my case) then why would she deserve your love. You can’t show love towards everybody in the world; it’s impossible to do this in a lifetime. Spread your love towards people who are more deserving and who want it. Families are complicated. Sometimes mothers think that they know what is best for their children but they are misguided to the extent that they become abusive in their insistence on exerting influence. I am 33 years old and I recently found out that my mother is a psychopath. It’s a strange set of circumstances that I couldn’t possibly describe here but through no fault of mine – and while she still possesses full moral agency – she has made decisions to hurt me when I was desperate to be helped. I know that she knows how to be a decent person because she has showed these traits in the past and continues to show them to other people, which is part of the manipulative influence that she has had.
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I will never be able to fully trust her again and right now it feels like I will never be able to trust her even a little bit ever again. I sympathise strongly with anybody who is exposed to this kind of manipulation. If I can’t imagine trusting her again and I have also tried very hard (with no success) to find forgiveness, then how could I love her and why should I feel guilty if I don’t? It’s bad but it’s not my fault, so I have no moral qualms whatsoever. I may change my mind at a later date but I would have to observe serious contrition and recognition of the damage inflicted before I even started to think about rekindling the love that I thought we shared.